Only me and u

You have spent many hours in search of the perfect bride and you have found it in Russia. Is it possible to marry her? Russian women are extremely desired marriage partners. They are well educated and easily adapt to new social environment.

Local traditions are respected in these lands and you will find it funny to observe some of them. Keep in mind that rites are changing slowly and even though today they sound funny, they are deep into people's genes and hearts. Do not make offensive comments because you may hurt your sweetheart even before asking her to marry you.

Being part of a collectivist society, Russians will expect to share the engagement moment with as many friends as possible. Though the engagement ceremony is not an official act such as the marriage, in this country it is considered very important.

The parents' opinion is leading sometimes, so listen to your soul mate and ask her whenever you have questions about the tradition. Normally you have already discussed your relationship and you have her lovely Yes to your question for marriage. This is the time when you have to ask her from her father.

But it's not necessarily the father who calls the tune in the world of the modern Russian family, because both mother and father have influence on the domestic decisions. After girls come of age, her parents do not stop her from meeting whoever she wants and run her life as she finds it for her future good.

No matter, the local tradition requires the groom to visit his girlfriend's house and to have a man-to-man talk with her father. Sometimes mother and daughter also attend these meetings holding their hands and smiling with happiness.

When you have the blessing of the family, you should discuss with them which is the best time for the engagement ceremony. Having status, this event will legitimize your relationship and will give you the chance to meet all important people in your bride's life. This means dozens of cousins, friendly aunts, funny uncles and curious friends. Do not be scared of them, have a natural manner and pay a little attention to everyone of the guests.

In Russia people are cordial and all of a sudden you might find yourself in the strong hug of a male you hardly know or have not seen at all. Just don't try to escape - screaming. Hugs between people from the same sex are quite okay and are sign of sharing with you the moment of happiness and welcoming you into their community as a member and friend.

Marriage is respected in all ex-soviet countries although in recent years they have become more liberal and open relationships are accepted too. That is why the family may insist on a big wedding. Your bride will love it too! Deep in their hearts Russians are eternal romantics.

The preparation for a proper wedding may take time. It is directly depending on many financial factors. Usually the parents have put money aside for the wedding, but investing more and more in this, is a question of personal pride.

Your bride will be sad if she sees that her parents are trying to do their best for the organization and you are insisting on a fast ceremony. Understand her. To assist the process you can contribute with money or preparation.

And you may kiss the bride!